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Hello to everyone in this thread. I'm not trying to be mean, just very clear. My ex-boyfriend and I dated for four and a half years and recently broke up. Thank you for this blog. No easy answers here. Yes; I suppose if each of us believe the other is brainwashed, there's going to be major problems later on. I have felt alone many a days when raising our 2 children while he was at work or out of town for conferences. The rest of it is all just the normal course of events for someone in this situation, but this isn't a good sign: If he were thinking about you, he'd contact you when he does have the rare free minute or two. As for conversion, she just spent every waking second thinking about converting people. I believe that marriage and kids is not something that can't be handled, I'm sure that once kids arrive somehow both parents will do whatever it takes to be there for the kids, however I'm also sure that you will be the one most likely to carry the weight a bit more and of course feel it too.